Life is a matter of enjoying fully your God given gifts. Its not counting what you don't have, its about appreciating every single good things that you possess. Though, at times you may think that things are taking the wrong deal, but still, dont lose hope and continue to hold on. Though giving up is the best resort still, make each day a memorable and useful one. You are the only person that can make yourself happy. And as they say it, happiness is always a choice. Other people have also their own lives to live. They may be there for you at all times now, but sooner or later, we can never tell, by fortuitous event or by their own will, they may leave you behind. In life, there's no such thing as forever, maybe its only just a word, used by people when their emotions overule their minds. Or, if the meaning of such word really exists and is applied, then very lucky to that person who had found someone that really knows the meaning of that word.
So, now its better not to be so attached to anyone. Remember you are born alone, you have the capacity to live, to make a life, to make a living, to be a useful citizen - without depending on someone to push you through, to lift you up, to give a new light. Other people may seem to influence and give you much inspiration, but just be thankful that you've met them. Don't think anything else. Always do not assume. Even your wife or your husband has her/his own life to live, so don't meddle much on their business. Too much meddling can even cause so much doubts and quarrels. Or, if your personality is really very controlling, then you'll lucky if you'll find someone who'll be patient with you throughout.
If you're a person who easily falls for someone who's kind, pretty/handsome and intelligent, then, change you attitude or line of thinking on that matter. If you'd been hurt by that thing, don't let yourself fall for the same trap again. Control...control...control... or don't indulge in a thing which you can see an impending danger. When you're already hooked to it, its hard to get out. Well, if you're bored with your life and wants to have some challenging problems to solve, then you can have one. But just be sure that you'll ready to face the consequences or else, you'll end up blaiming yourself for your foolishness. Anyway, if you don't know and cannot distinguish a fool thing from a wise one, then its the first thing that you must know. Animals and humans are separated by the degree of intelligence that they possess. Unable to distinguish right from wrong is in way includes you to the level of the brutes. And hello! Remember, you are human and is worthy of all human respect, happiness and friendship with the world. You are one unique individual who needs no pity coz you're already capable of making a living and making yourself happy.
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